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Time well spent

 
 

It’s been a beautiful summer, with lovely weather in the fantastic Kootenay mountains, as well as the great company of Bernard’s friend Elena, who stayed with us for a month and a half. Most of the time was spent in our backyard, after a smallish pool was purchased and set up by the outdoor bed. On sunny days we listened to Chi Cha, read books, gardened, went for a swim, and generally enjoyed ourselves. It was, I think, great for Bernard to have a good friend come to visit, someone who actually cares about him and enjoys his company. On better days, we were even able to help Bernard into the pool   

 

 
 
 
There is a local beach just a couple minutes away, and a few times recently we made a makeshift bed in the back of the Jeep and brought Bernard down there for the day. It’s hard on him to travel that way (not to mention illegal and unsafe), but just a few minutes driving on a ‘good day’ is doable and essential to his sanity. Our sailboat also came along, and Bernard talked Elena, Ryan and I through its set up. It might drive him crazy not being able to sail himself, but he was also glad to see us do it.

       

 
The garden that was started this spring has done well, on the whole. There is a need to increase the quality of the soil, especially in some areas, but some great produce has come out of it already. Potatoes, zucchini, lettuce, swisschard, beets, beans, kale and turnips have all done well. Our grain trials were successful too, with hulless oats and barley, soft wheat, quinoa and amaranth all ripening at the moment.        

 
 

Now autumn has blown in, quite suddenly and decisively, so that even a hot day can’t disquise it. It’s a little windier, a bit cooler and cloudier and just a little less green. A new list of essential chores has cropped up in my mind. We’re no closer to getting help for Bernard. The summer lulled us into relaxing, and it was certainly a neccesity for us to take a break. But now it once again falls on us that we don’t have someone in the medical system who’s going to get to the bottom of this. Our current family doctor has helped with medications and with forms for financial assistance. But I think he’s given up on Bernard actually getting better. He was supposed to organize an appointment for another test, but obviously has forgotten to do this, as we’ve not heard from him for months. We have to muster up the courage to try try again. Courage is something we were running short of. I hope our summer break has refreshed us emotionally enough to enter the ring again.       

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

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Hanging out in the garden

 

Summer has definitively arrived here in the Kootenays, after a particularly long cloudy winter.  It’s been really beautiful the last while, making it a pleasure to be out in the yard. 

 

 

Loving to garden and develop our understanding of growing food, this year we are expanding the existing raised bed garden that’s great for growing tomatoes, tomatillos, eggplant and peppers, due to its protected south exposure.  We’ve also just created a new garden plot on the west side of the yard, which I’ve just about finished planting.  Bernard researched fencing options (there are deer, so we need to have a fence), phoned around for the best deals and organized to have a local fellow with a market garden come with his tractor to dig up the new area for us.  We seem to have lucked upon a good spot with pretty nice soil to start out with. 

When it comes to growing our own food we know a little and have much to learn.  Two years ago, in addition to the other vegetables,  we had a bit of a tomato project, growing about 30 different varieties, saving seed, seeing which grew well here.  Last year it was pole beans.  This year little plots of millet, amaranth, hulless barley and quinoa are milling with the carrots and cabbages in the new garden.  A bunch of fruit bushes have been planted this year too: black and red currants, hardy kiwi, saskatoons, and gooseberries so far.  We have big plans, but only one body that can do the physical work necessary, so it takes time.  Hiring someone to come dig out the garden was a big help, and keeping the deer fence light and simple for now was also the most practical thing to do. 

 

 

My mother gave us an outdoor lounger last year that’s made for two people and can lay down flat when needed. This allows Bernard, on his better days, to make his way carefully outside to get some sun and enjoy the beautiful yard and forest.  The lounger has a great view of the new garden too.  This is crucial to staying positive when he has so much pain and uncertainty about ever being healed. 

 

 

Summer reminds me that life goes on, even when you’re living with a terrible injury.  We try to do at least some of the things we love, because it certainly doesn’t help to get down and sit in the house on a beautiful day.  Even though, I must say, it’s weird to be doing ‘normal’ things when really we are in a crisis.  It’s like that with everything I do.  I know it’s good to do what we can and enjoy ourselves, but then I find it crazy that we aren’t just screaming and crying at the insanity of it all.

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